I'm out of work and collecting unemployment from the state

Submitted by markedwardflaherty on Tue, 03/10/2009 - 02:21

Collecting unemployment in the state of Ca. due to being laid off.While being off work and collecting Unemployment from the state of Calif.If I get hurt at home and the Doctor determines I can't work for a couple of months,will I be able to switch from Unemployment benefits to Disability benefits?

Posted: 10 Mar 2009 05:49 Post Subject:

If I get hurt at home and the Doctor determines I can't work for a couple of months,will I be able to switch from Unemployment benefits to Disability benefits?


I don't think it works that way!
If your disability benefits are meant to be offered when you'd get injured at work, then they'd not be applicable over here. Disability insurance is pretty much linked with the kind of job as well as the risks associated with the job that the insured is involved in.

Posted: 10 Mar 2009 10:20 Post Subject:

I’m not sure if switching from unemployment to disability is allowed while receiving the benefits. But the reverse occurs fairly frequently. If a disabled person after receiving fit certificate can’t find proper employment matching his/her –age, experience and education, he/she can enroll for the UI benefits.

It’d be hard to determine disability in your case since you were already laid-off. However, I'd still suggest you to get things clarified from the state websites regarding UI and SSDI benefits.

Posted: 10 Mar 2009 01:31 Post Subject:



PostPosted: 10 Mar 2009 02:21 Post subject: I'm out of work and collecting unemployment from the state
Collecting unemployment in the state of Ca. due to being laid off.While being off work and collecting Unemployment from the state of Calif.If I get hurt at home and the Doctor determines I can't work for a couple of months,will I be able to switch from Unemployment benefits to Disability benefits?



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Posted: 14 Mar 2009 11:04 Post Subject:

While people can apply and be approved for disability benefits (through Social Security) at any time...I'm sure that they would look very closely at the circumstances surrounding your "disability." Is there a reason that you think you are going to be hurt while at your home?

Posted: 04 Apr 2009 10:39 Post Subject: Hurt while on unemployment

I actually was hurt snowboarding while collecting unemployment and subsequently had to have surgery and extensive physical therapy. Now my unemployment claim is about to expire and I still can't walk. Anyone have any help/info?

Posted: 13 Aug 2009 02:06 Post Subject: Disability after losing job

Here's my situation in a nut shell. I have incurable liver disease and for the past 4 yrs I have had the luxury of a boss that understood time off and doctors appointments, etc. I literally missed a week or more every month as a result.

After getting laid off I could not afford to carry COBRA. I got no severance package of any type. My natural first move was to start unemployment. While collecting unemployment I have tried to find suitable employment...not having any luck finding work however my pain from my condition isn't getting better. It's getting worse. Unfortunately I tried to speak to someone in the local California Unemployment Department that not only barely spoke English but consistently refused to answer or transfer me to someone that could answer the question.

If I apply for permanent disability (I'm 52, worked since age 16, and a US Navy Veteran) will I lose what little money I am receiving from unemployment?

Thank you

Posted: 23 Aug 2009 12:24 Post Subject:

will I lose what little money I am receiving from unemployment?

I wouldn't think so, but probably would be a good idea to talk with an attorney on that one..or check the gov't. ss site and see if it addresses this.

Posted: 25 Oct 2009 06:05 Post Subject: Disablilty

Yes. You have to let the department of unemployment know that you can not work and the reason and then you can file for unemployment disability. I know you can do it because it happened to me. You can not have both claims going at the same time or there will be problems.

Posted: 05 Dec 2009 12:27 Post Subject: benefits

I am collecting unemployment benefits and have been for about 8 months, and plan on collecting for maybe
another 8 months with the extentions. I recently file a
disabilty claim, will this cause me problems?

Posted: 05 Dec 2009 03:00 Post Subject:

You CAN collect disability if your doctor says you cannot work! You cannot collect both at the same time. Yoy pay into Disability so it is your money you would be getting back, you do not pay into Unemployment, your employer does.
If your doctor takes you off of work, they do the DI paperwork.

Posted: 14 Mar 2010 10:22 Post Subject: uc benifits

ive been collecting uc benifits for some time now.Irecently got a part time job but mostly relied on my uc benifits.about 2 weeks ago i had a terrible fall at home doing major damage to my leg .My doctor said it would be aleast 12 weeks till i can stand and being a cashier and stock person the job requirers standing.I have every intentions of going back thier when able but could i still collect uc benifits or do i get nothing?Ican not collect disablity because I wasnt a full time employee and wasnt thier long enough.I can"t afford to not to recieve any compensation what should i do ?

Posted: 27 Mar 2010 03:10 Post Subject: Life Insurance Policy

Collecting UC for about a year now thinking about surrendering a whole life Ins Policy to use the cash value towards bills. Will that cause a problem as far as my weekly benefits? If I work that's a different story just wasn't sure about found money.

Posted: 03 Jun 2010 11:48 Post Subject: unemployment and disability

IF I RECIEVE UNEMPLOYMENT NOW. IF I GET APPROVRD FOR DISABILITY WILL I HAVE TO REPAY THE UNEMPLOYMENTI RECEIVED. THE DOCTOR HAS NOT SAID IM DISABILED YET . I HAVE TO GO TO A HEARING.

Posted: 04 Jun 2010 10:20 Post Subject:

Well Jennifer, that is a sticky wicket isn't it..all states are different, you'll need to check with yours, but frankly does it matter? At this point it either is or is not right?

Posted: 06 Jul 2010 04:09 Post Subject: Surgery

I have been collecting Unemployment for about a year (in Texas). I am now told by my doctor that I need a hip replacement. Will I be able to pick my benefits up again after I am released to work? Or can I continue to receive them while not working?

Posted: 09 Jul 2010 06:48 Post Subject:

Unemployment benefits are not disability income benefits. To lawfully collect Unemployment benefits, you must be actively seeking employment. You cannot do that if you are "totally disabled". Total disability means you cannot work.

So your unemployment benefit would end the day you are first hospitalized, and could only resume after your disability ends.

Posted: 15 Sep 2010 01:32 Post Subject: Hurt while on Unemployment

Fell last week, broke wrist in two places, scheduled for surgery in a few days, do I lose my benefits, and what can i do till I have recooperated.

Posted: 15 Sep 2010 01:52 Post Subject: Unemployment

Had a bad fall last Tuesday, broke two bones in wrist, am having surgery in a few days. The fall was around 530pm. I completed my work search for that week, and continued looking for jobs. Do I have to snd that ck back to them since i was injured? And would i lose my unemployment since i am now having sugery? Would i be able to get unemployment disability?

Posted: 16 Sep 2010 04:52 Post Subject:

This is a question for the state agency that handles your unemployment benefits. They are most likely responsible for any state-provided disability benefits. If you are entitled to the latter, they will figure out how to deal with it.

In all likelihood, a disability benefit may be more money than an unemployment benefit. It's based on your wages for a specific period of time, usually over the course of one year or more, prior to the date of your disability.

As for the week's unemployment benefit the week of your injury . . . I doubt they'll take it away in whole, but they might be entitled to take it away in part. Depends on what they are asking you to report on the weekly benefit form.

Posted: 16 Jul 2011 05:57 Post Subject: UNEMPLOYMENT/DISABILITY

I AM NOW ON UNEMPLOYMENY BUT NEED KNEE SURGERY. cAN i COLLECT UNEMPLOYMENT UNTIL i GET MY FIRST DISABILITY CK?

Posted: 17 Jul 2011 12:14 Post Subject:

To be eligible for unemployment insurance benefits, you must certify under penalty of perjury that you are ABLE TO WORK AND ACTIVELY SEEKING WORK. If you are currently unable to work because you are disabled, then you should not be applying for or collecting unemployment benefits.

Posted: 13 Oct 2011 05:12 Post Subject: Unemployment and disability

People should not reply when they do not know what they are talking about. Disability is not related to work injuries only. ..thats workers compensation.

Posted: 13 Oct 2011 06:41 Post Subject:

People should not reply when they do not know what they are talking about. Disability is not related to work injuries only. ..thats workers compensation.


To what are you referring with this statement? There is nothing in this thread that deals with workers' compensation claims.

Posted: 01 Feb 2012 03:47 Post Subject: social security disability

my job was eliminated in may of 2011 in june of 2011 i was diagnosed with ulcerative coilitis iam collecting unemployment and have been looking for work in this time frame required by uc but now my medical problem is getting worse and i wont be able to return to my choosen profession can I apply for ssd

Posted: 01 Feb 2012 01:44 Post Subject:

can I apply for ssd



Yes, I think you can apply for SSDI provided that:

1. Your condition has left you entirely incapable of working in your own profession
2. You have worked in jobs covered by Social Security

If you are eligible, you'd have to go through a 5 month waiting period before you are entitled to SSDI benefits.

Posted: 01 Feb 2012 03:55 Post Subject: Injured at home while on FL Unemployment

I have been getting UC in FL for about 9 months. 1 & 1/2 weeks ago I broke my left hand & wrist & had non-invasive surgery. I'm in a big cast, can't drive for 4 - 6 weeks, have 1 hand to work with and will have phys. therapy after cast comes off. I'm still looking for work, but when I get an interview I don't know how I'm going to handle that. Not sure how to handle Unemployment Comp/Disability. Should I continue on UC or do they have any kind of allowance/exception if something temporary like this happens?

Posted: 01 Jul 2012 02:00 Post Subject: switching from unemployment

hello. As briefly as i can...

ive been sick for years, undiagnosed because drs werent taking me serious due to my age, was 25 then. feb 2011, i got extremely sick, in hospital for 4 days, then had to be on short term disability until july. when i went back to work, i thought i felt better but continued to miss 5 days to 2 weeks each month, do to recurrences and surgeries.

work started dropping the hammer 2 weeks after i returned from surgery in may this year, even though i had explained before i returned to work july 2011 that i was still getting treatment and it would be affecting me. they knew up front that i would be dealing with many appoints, tests, errands associated with medical and it might interfere with my schedule. i have been consistently late to work everyday for 6 years, with no disciplinary action until 2 weeks after returning from surgery. needless to say, this caused a severe panic attack my dr put me off for 6 weeks.

as of right now, i have not had a significant diagnosis on the several medical problems ive been having. they are doing several tests, labs, specialists, and no solid answers yet. however, i do have extremely bad anxiety and depression from this whole ordeal, being unwell constantly and the stress of trying to function, unsuccessfully. the drs theories are autoimmune diseases, heart arrhythmias, constant migraines, stress associated seizures, and horrible visual disturbances.

soooooo. the questions are these.

as of right now ive only been diagnosed with bipolar, which i agree with but just do not believe its so severe as to be causing all of these unbearable physical symptoms. the dr feels its bad enough to keep me out of work right now. if i am soooo bipolar that its causing my body to start failing, or its something more major that just hasnt been found yet, and my dr puts me on long term dis., if i get well enough to work before i am eligible for ssdi, will i be able to transition to unemployment?

conversely, if i am well enough to be released to look for work on unemployment but then become sick again, will i be eligible to go on ssdi?

im concerned because either way, ssdi or unempl. ill lose my insurance. i also have no friends, or family, and will be forced to file bank. due to all the lost wages from medical, my car is breaking down. if i dont get either, im literally homeless and sick and starving. but until i get everything totally checked out with a diagnosis and know how severe my sickness is (in other words, will i be healed quick enough to go back to work in the next 3 months or will my dr put me on ssdi, is the million dollar question) i have no idea what to do and what my options are, and this is NOT helping me get back on my feet with all of this crashing down on me. im doing my best but its not good enough and i feel like a loser but im doing everything i know to do to get back on my feet and stop being a loser.

sorry for so long. hope you can give some advice. all is appreciated.

Posted: 18 Jul 2012 01:51 Post Subject:

will my dr put me on ssdi, is the million dollar question)


Your doctor is not responsible for this.

Posted: 04 Jan 2013 07:43 Post Subject: disability

I broke my right hand in 3 places May 2012, (I am right handed), I have joint damage that is forming arthritis and recently my Dr. told me i might have torn ligaments in my right hand. My Dr. wants me to have surgery I am in constant pain. My question is am I able to recieve disability? I also have a leg injury from 2002, from a city bus accident, that is getting worse at age 15 I was to scared to get surgery now 11 years later it still swells up just to walk.

Posted: 05 Jan 2013 03:09 Post Subject:

My question is am I able to recieve disability?


That depends on whether you have a disability income insurance policy or not.

A few states, such as California, have a state disability insurance program that provides temporary disability income for up to about 1 year. If you are in one of those states, you might be eligible.

If you are asking about Social Security Disability, the answer is probably NO. But you can always try.

Posted: 12 Feb 2013 05:16 Post Subject: unemployed then out on state disability now unemployed again

I live in CA. The end of 2011 I was laid off my job and with my PTSD and other mental issues it sent me to the hospital two times- for long inpatient and outpatient treatment.
I filed for Unempl bene's the 1st of Jan. even though I knew I was not prepared to go back to work. I had a shitty psychiatrist and we never discussed my ability to hold a job after such a traumatic event (attempted suicide)- but just her 10 min. med checks.

Later in May we discussed and she put me out on state disability and they back dated it to March 19th instead of Jan. 1, after the appeal which went thru.

My question is will I now be able to re-open my unemployment claim or apply for new one since I was found too sick to look for a job that year and now have no job to return to after being laid off?

Posted: 12 Feb 2013 08:13 Post Subject:

Only the CA EDD can answer your question. Ask them.

Now that Obama and the Democrats have approved a limit of 375,000 days of unemployment benefits -- or something like that -- in a person's lifetime, who knows? No one in America has to work anymore unless they want to. Whatever you want, just ask Obama, and you can have it for free. The insurance companies will pay for it.

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Last November I was in a car accident, and had a severe neck injury. The person who hit me did not have insurance. At the time I had just started collecting unempolyment. I did so until someone told me I should be getting money through my insurance company. This was in March, I did not get a check until June. I never realized that they paid from the date of the accident 11/21/11. So my insurance and unempolyment paid 3 months. Now what do I do!!!!!! Help!!!!!

Posted: 24 Mar 2013 10:35 Post Subject:

Why did you file a claim for unemployment? If you were disabled, you could not be unemployed . . . to be unemployed means you are able to work and actively seeking work. To be disabled means you are unable to work. If you collected unemployment benefits improperly, you have a legal responsibility to pay the money back to the state and hope that they don't prosecute you.

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It also a great option for busy professionals who want to avoid the potential time suck of online dating. Of swiping and getting caught up with online dating sites frustrations, Ghosting, And kitten day fishing; Matchmaking allows you to be linked to singles who share similar lifestyles, behavior, the values and goals, she says.

But think about your diet the cost? Ray encourages singles to consider it like this: Is dough. Dating the wrong person can cost a lot in both time wasted and money invested into the wrong relationships. Men especially feel the financial pressures of dating when they wining and dining ladies they need to impress. You employ a matchmaker, Money going out on dates with singles who you need to determine compatibility with, Is now decreased. Your matchmaker covers someone who already shares compatibility and has a much higher likelihood for a long term relationship to develop, tells you Ray.

as somebody who gone on their fair share of bizarre dates, I this way a matchmaker does the vetting for you. pro matchmaker, I personally meet with whatever client I work with. whenever using clients Internationally, We do a thorough video national gathering, Skype call and incorporate third party screening to ensure the client is really who they say they are. Therefore reducing the likelihood that you end up on a date with someone who is a foot shorter than what they listed in the profile (True storyline).

But much like online dating service, Matchmaking requires that clients be open to the process and have a clear idea of what they really want. As Ray offers, Look for clients who are committed to particles finding their partner and are willing and open to working with me. When a client is fixed on doing things "these way" quite possibly isn "Coachable" Or open to any feed-back, This typically never works out well for myself or your customer. When considering finding love, Patience ought to be required. As beam reminds us, Ideal matchmaking client realizes that finding someone is a process and not a quick fix. There a matchmaker for all kinds and every age group. Matchmaking services run from the original to the totally electronic, But at the core, It where people are matched by a third party.

Research shows autumn is a terrific time to start looking for a more committed love relationship before the big winter hibernation.

over time, Many cultures would call upon a trusted matchmaker to find the best option spouse for their children. And in some cultures this is still the most preferable way to meet the right person. dating has a long history, Dating back centuries and many trained to be expert matchmaker after years of studying. a component art, Part commerce deal, Matchmaking comes in many forms and many can attest to the prosperity of going this route.

From dissimilar names (In the Jewish communities of Russia and far east Europe, family would visit a Shadkhan, In Japanese culture task was known as a Nakodo, While the Chinese described the person as Nu Gua.) are made, Some see the practice as quaint and obsolete, The resurgence can be found dating a latina in the loads of online agencies offering services from the corporate level to those who just wanna do lunch. there are even matchmaking services for the gay community.

Of course you be surprised at the success found in perfect matches when family and friends get involved, Because no one knows you like a beloved pet or trusted friend.

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I feel so guilty that i must date again a year after husband

The guilt that accompanies these feelings is awful. It's like I'm unfaithful to him by even thinking about anyone else. I miss joining a couple, Being cared for and adored and I also miss intimacy. Sometimes though I'm also grieving so badly that all I need to do is stay in bed and not see anyone.

My husband's death was through a long illness and was therefore not unexpected. I cared for him until the end and he had a very peaceful death surrounded by family.

Even though my husband was not my first lover we had been together a long time and I'm petrified that I won't be able to cope with what's "the norm" Now if I in order to date again.

I try to stay positive and arrange to see friends more often. The thoughts of online dating service is not appealing.

I guess what I'm actually looking for here is some advice as to whether you think I'm ready or should wait a while longer until it's "Seemly" begin the process dating again. I'd appreciate your thoughts as I don't feel I can confide these conflicted feelings to anyone.

Mary feedback: I'm so sorry that you lost your husband at such an young age. Grief affects us all in different ways and I think you will have to realise that there is no downward or upward steady continuum while going through the process. Instead it comes and goes in waves some days can be better than others and some are as you describe, Not wanting to eliminate bed.

I think it is a fantastic tribute to your husband that you are beginning to think of male company again. having, If your marriage had been very unhappy you would be steering well clear of men for a long time. And as you begin to accept the new normality of life without him then it is very much in order that you start dating again. You are a relatively young woman with hopefully many more decades ahead of you and it is only right that you should begin thinking of having somebody in your life.

I can understand your terror regarding dating, specially when it gets to the sexual side of things. A friend told me that as she was preparing to go on her first dating in spanish date i really hope untimely death of her husband, Her teenage children were asking her if she had condoms collectively, And she was absolutely appalled never having used condoms with her husband who had previously been her first and only lover. But keep in mind when you get to know somebody new and start being sexual with him he will have his own history, will undoubtedly be around the same age as you and will be equally worried as to how things will go. So don't get too hung up on what will happen when you start having sex with somebody new everybody worries as to what each other will think of them.

The guilt you are feeling because in some way you think you are being disloyal to your husband is perfectly normal. But you have no need to feel like this if the roles were reversed I'm sure you would wish for your husband to start his life and meet somebody new. Amy Krouse Rosenthal recently wrote a most amazingly touching letter about moving on in The New York Times. She had terminal cancer and wrote looking for a person new for her husband. She documented him so lovingly, Listing all his good points and wishing whoever was sufficiently fortunate to get him every happiness. I'm sure you have access to some validation from reading it. Your children will also wish only the good for you, Happy in keep rising that you did everything possible to care for their father in his final illness.

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It's high season for international dating

Send the wrong emoji or apparently any at all if you're male and you're virtually gone.

The method can be daunting, Especially to man to the game. combined with Jan. 3 expected to be the busiest day of the year for uniform dating, We figured there's no better time to ask experts to share their tips for achievement.

your chances are goodduringthe winter: in Lauren O'Reilly of OkCupid, People tend to end interaction going into the holidays and want to start fresh inthe new year. the next thunderstorm also plays a factor: absolutely "Cuffing season, of course, The time when humansare more apt to want to stay in and cuddle up.

Your odds areeven better on sundays: Add looking into dating apps into your charmdate review "Easing in to week day" Sunday night normal routine. Your best chance of striking up a conversing with a potential suitor.

Be pure:Look at a dater'sprofile and write to them aboutsomething specific, So they know that you aren't just randomly throwing out opening lines to every single person that is on the app, McCann has revealed. "If they mentioned they're a foodie, Hit them 'so I see you're a foodie, styles best Mexican restaurant in town?or,-- " McCann recounted.

[weeks without dating apps: It was harder than i believed]

Give them something cooperate with: Starting a conversing with a question works best. Butsay a lot more than, "hey there, what's up, Which puts the pressure on theother personto come up with something to discuss. Encourage a matchto answer by feeding them material.

"You can say like 'Katy Perry or Taylor Swift?' or a cute opening line with two choices that kind of gives you a little idea of who they may be, McCann reported.

participate in it cool: People tend to word vomit anything that they're looking for in their bios: A wife or someone to cuddle with at night. Less is more, warns Laurie Davis, the biggest executiveof eFlirt, An online dating services consultancy.

"You would never say that to somebody when you initially meet them at a bar, So don't say that on the net either, She identified. Keep it light and, and do not be negative. Listing what you don't need in a relationship is "Just going to make you look cold, She includes.

Get traditional ASAP: Many people like the idea of dating foreign girls in theory but don't find success because they never meet people face to face. which is McCann likes the sense of urgency that location based apps like Tinder present to users,You're only going to be in the same location and time for a very short finite period, she says.

Try tokeep virtualchatting to a minimum. Davis's rulesof thumb are six messages back and forth on dating sites, 20 to 30 text exchanges when you on adating app. If by two weeks of message, have not met up, your got to pull the trigger and suggest a date.

"You really want to get to meeting each other and make sure that there really is some sort of real connection before you develop a virtual fantasy of romantic relationship in your head, McCann asserted.

Hit them with your very best shots: When considering your photos, "You need to look like lovely walk out the door and go on a great first date, McCann rumoured.

meaning avoiding group photos, Wearing sunglassesor only including pictures of your mind.

[n't any tigers. No clubs. not too much skin. How to select the right photos for your dating profile.]

"You're 203 percentmore likely to get messages with one full body shot, Davis says.

Be sure to include pictures that show what your life is like when you're not just hanging out your living room taking selfies. Active lifestyle shots make for great discussion starters.

Emoji are your very good friend,But only in case you are a woman: "Men mustn't be using emoji at all, Davis suggested. "If they use a smiley face in an email, Their kind of reaction rate drops 66 percent, ouch, What will give? in order to Davis, Women look for confidence in a man, And depending upon emoji to show emotions doesn't exude confidence.

But for women one other is true. in order to Davis, When women use a smiley face in profile, It raises messages by 60 percent. "females, quickly as they use emoji, It results in as being warmer,

Davis, but the truth is, Warns women to prevent use of flowers, spirits or any emoji that seemlovey dovey. "It's like the text version of too much too early,

Momentum is also important. "If there's going to be goods that are barriers to the momentum, You should make that clear up front, Davis said. If you are heading away, Make a plan to meet up when you get back having something to count on couldkeep a fledglingrelationship from fizzling out.

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